Tuesday, February 13, 2007

As per ususal.



The reason I think PostSecret is so amazing is because I, myself, could have sent any of these in. I didn't. But it's so galvanizing to see someone else sum up your own life experience so succintly- someone who you'll never know other than through the act of shared information via clicking on some website.

The things I love the most artistically tend to be the things that make me laugh but almost cry. One of these made me actually just cry. And I think I loved it even more than the rest as a result. Try to guess which one- let's see who wins.

Thanks again and as always to PostSecret.com.

Monday, February 12, 2007

The Whole Ball Of Wax You Requirement.






The title? This particular one was from a SPAM email sent to my work address which made me smirk.

Enjoy some candids taken by the cast of our recent Kissing Booth video shoot for a short called "Matt's Party". Overall a really lovely time, and we couldn't have been happier with all the hard work put in by everyone. Especially our crew, Oren Brimer, Nathan Kloke, Anya Garrett, and Matt Johnston. Thanks, pals.

Thursday, February 08, 2007

The Writing Group.


Hey there! Come look at me reading something what I wrote on paper and such.
This is a very special meeting, as this is the core group from our dearly beloved,
generically named writing group of yore. Lots of Brooklyn Friendships (TM) were
had here. This is where Sara & I developed the original scenes that would become
A VERY BETSEY XMAS and many other offensive delightful sketches. Our pal Julie Miller
made it all happen. She's the bomb and shit.

Come out and see what we've all been up to! And support Tillie's, which is a
great place that has red velvet cupcakes. Oh yes, that's right.





Hi Friends,
>
> I'm hosting a COMEDY reading at Tillie's of Brooklyn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
> (the coffee shop below my apt.)
>
> The reading is one of many special events going on in February to celebrate
> Tillie's 10 year anniverary! I'd LOVE for you to come!!!
>
>
> WHEN: Thursday Feb. 8th, 8pm
>
> WHERE: Tillie's of Brooklyn (Ft. Greene, Brooklyn)
> 248 Dekalb (@Vanderbilt) www.tilliesofbrooklyn.com
>
> WHAT: Please see the write-up below followed by a calendar of
> Tillie's 10th anniversary events in February...
>
>
>
> Thurs. 2/8
>
> 8 p.m. An Evening of Comedy Readings
>
> Organized by Julie Miller, who graduated from Pratt with a degree in Writing
> for Performance and now works at Spike TV. With Sara Alloco, Brandy Barber
> (co-producer of MORTIFIED, The Kissing Booth), Jordan Carlos ("Live
at Gotham," Montreal
> Comedy Festival, The Colbert Report), Andrew Condell ("The Tunafish Sandwich Story"),
Matthew
> Guzzardo ("The Sizzle Twins"), Julie Miller, and Lindsay Nouis. Based
on the
> weekly comedy writing workshop held in Miller's apartment (conveniently
> located directly above Tillie's).
>

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Kind Of Always Knew I'd End Up Your Ex-Girlfriend.


Mrs. Morse looked into the liquor and shuddered back from its odor. Maybe it would help. Maybe, when you had been knocked cold for a few days, your very first drink would give you a lift. Maybe whisky would be her friend again. She prayed without adressing a God, without knowing a God. Oh, please. please, let her be able to get drunk, please keep her always drunk.

She lifted the glass.



-- Dorothy Parker, Big Blonde

Daisy Miller.



Must. Stop. Singing. This. Song.

BUT I CAN'T!!!

Yes, that's right, it's Mariah Carey's Heartbreaker. Featuring Giulia Rozzi's fiance' Tim Owens.

Save the date- February 24th, 2007, and you'll get to see Sara & I tear this up in our drunken, off-key finale at THE KISSING BOOTH. I shall be doing the Jay Z raps. QUIT LAUGHING.

Monday, February 05, 2007

Cristal Poppin' In The Stretch Navigator.


Hey. I should post something. So...this is it. Sorry. Tired.

Oh, and the Pupppy Bowl this year was awesome, even though I feel asleep.

I want to be friends with all the Pussycat Dolls, also. Just to clarify.

Friday, February 02, 2007

UK, All The Way.

This is the summation of how I think this weekend will be. AWESOME. Nothing better than a bunch of girls dancing and causing mischief. Hoping there will be some accents, too. Especially British ones. Aw, yeah.

I Told You That I'm No Good.



Look. I was all aflutter to write an entry where I make fun of this song, but I can't. Because...(deep breah intake) the thing is...I. Love. It.

I LOVE IT, I SAID!!!

How is it that this song, which is at this point 11 years old, STILL somehow manages to be the fucking jam?!? I cannot resist the appeal! And I want to , I really really do. I KNOW better. I have a fucking Women's Studies MINOR from Cal State University Long Beach, a city I might add that has the largest Gay/Lesbian/Transgendered population outside of San Francisco! I am an enlightend fucking feminist scholar!!! This is a silly, sexist bunch of crap and I should be immune to its patriachal charms! I READ The Feminine Mystique for chrissakes!!!

But...I also grew up in Dirty SoCal (619! West Coast REPRA), and I went to the high school that they based the "black girl's run-down but full of spirit" school off of in the epic Bring It On. I danced to JJ Fad in a cheerleading outfit & bamboo earrings at my pep rallies while one town over people were playing Warrant at theirs. I cannot deny my roots. I cannot deny that if I was out, having some of the High Life, and this song came on, I would snatch up the closest attractive boy and grind the fucking zipper off his pants.

There. I said it. I'm named and shamed. Let's never talk about this again. Except here.

Also...this is NOT the My Pony video I was searching for but, it is also pretty awesome for different reasons that do not involved dry fucking against the dance floor wall of the Acapulco Inn on 2nd Street with a Sig Ep named Larry who lived across from you in the LBC dorms on $2 Tuesday Long Island Iced Tea Night. Eeeep.

Monday, January 29, 2007

The 2007 Glasses Were Broken.



More photos to surface, but here's what I got up to Saturday night.

Et Tu, GAWKER?


Dude. First PEOPLE.COM fucking hoses me, and now this?! GAWKER is supposed to make me feel bad for even being born because I fail so heinously at suaveness I am DOOMED, each and every time I read it. For example, witness my pathetic glee (at the bottom of this post, scroll for it) when I was inadvertently GAWKER stalked while I tried to have a conversation with an old UCB aquaintance named Brian Huskey (very funny comedian who you should know and if you don't, get fucked). Truly lame, no? And yet, I felt as if I'd arrived in a way that no fucktard that wore the right dress to the Oscars, thereby justifying a career for some reason could even hope to fathom. I felt...NEW YORK-ESQUE.

Cut to today when I saw on my GAWKER RSS feed a headline about MUSE. I thought there must be a joke- you know, that the article would report that some generic anorexic ingenue of the week was spotted fucking some old movie mogul goat's eyebrow in the bathroom stall while they snorted coke that was cut with Strawberry quick or some shit (of course they'd say "gak", but work with me here, people, I am clearly in no way cool).

Yet, no. No. This was serious. It was an almost...ickily earnest post about a karaoke place that Sara and I have been championing for a couple of years now. In fact, some of our formative comedy duo meetings took place there. It is also the place where we host SUNDAY DRUNK DAY (TM) and generally raise hell. So you know that shit is old news.

I read this little snippet and felt...hollow. As if GAWKER let me down. I mean, really- GAWKER Is supposed to be like a menacing, almost-sexually-harassing stepbrother meant to make me feel ashamed of my need for a training bra, not make me annoyed for stealing my signature moves like a pesky younger neighbor. What next? An entry about the recent slew of bar-b-que joints in NYC? Ths felt almost, dare I say, Jackie Harvey to me. Yikes.

Friday, January 26, 2007

THE KISSING BOOTH: BYOP (Bring Your Own Pelt).









What the fuck is The Kissing Booth?!? Well, it's a monthly variety show hosted by comedy duo Brandy & Sara. Stand ups, sketch, songs, and more from NYC's premiere performers, always with a spectacularly drunken finale. If you can't make the show, drop in for the FREE late nite dance party that begins directly after- cheap booze specials from our dreamy bartender Jason all nite long. Pucker Up For Comedy!


________________________________________________________

The Kissing Booth presents: Oh, Ho Ho- It's Magic!!!

January 27th, 2007
9:30 pm - $5 cover
Doors open at 9 pm

The D-Lounge
101 East 15th Street at Union Square East- BASEMENT LEVEL of the DR2 Theater

$3 Special Beer (TBA- Last Time It Was Stella)!
$4 Well Drinks!
Full Bar For You Fancy Types Who Insist On Acting Classy-like!

Dance Party Begins Right When The Show Ends, SO STICK AROUND!

In their first show of the new year, Brandy & Sara are keen to learn all there is to know about the dark arts. Come out and see what spells our fabulous comedians weave over your funnybone, YOU QUEER!!!!! And hey, if you can't make the show (because you suck), then come and get your drunk on with an after show dance party so wickedly debaucherous it'll result in pants-peeing! Check out this line up- so strong you'd think we used a magic wand to conjure them up:

with:

CLAUDIA COGAN
(co-host of the Parkside Lounge's CHECK YOUR COOL)

ERIC ANDRE
(Catch him before he melts the fucking snow off the ASPEN COMEDY FESTIVAL!)

CARL ARNHEITER
(creator & host of the UCB'S INSIDE JOKE)

MATT LITTLE
(DRINK AT WORK)

ANDREW WRIGHT
(co-host of Rififi's HERE'S THE THING)

ROB & MARK
(SpikeTV's "Geek Ray Vision" hunks and former Rififi's GIANT TUESDAY NIGHT mainstays)

with guest appearances from ANN CARR (another GTN babe), MATT SEARS (Gawker blogger fave) & MATT MCCARTHY (king of comedy at Mo Pitkin's & co-host of MAX!)!

PLUS A RIDCULOUS, OFF-KEY FINALE THAT'S SURE TO OFFEND YOUR EARS AND EYES!

And of course, drunker-than-usual nonsense from your hosts, Brandy & Sara, super paparazzi pal (AND BIRTHDAY BOY) Nathan Kloke, lots of yummy candy,and Hi-Jinx Galore!


PS This time Sara won't be so stoned she suddenly begins speaking in tounges. Also, I may decide to wear underpants. I SAID, I MAY.

Thursday, January 25, 2007

I Prefer "Platinum Digger".



My scalp reeks of tobacco. Seriously. Cut it out with the cigarettes, asshole! (cough, cough)

I was going to write something snarky about Fergie or something. But I am too tired today. So instead, just a reminder: I love, LOVE, Dr. Pepper in a can. And I love presents. And I got both today. Nice.

Tuesday, January 23, 2007

No More, Like 3LW.


Somebody is going to cool her jets. Really. In the meantime, the doggies can have my share.

Hey. Do you guys like that duet with Stevie Nicks and Kenny Loggins? Whenever I Call You Friend? Yeah. Me, too.

Monday, January 22, 2007

I Can't Stop (CHIPS).




Had the best weekend I could have imagined. There was a lot of sushi consumed, and beer and karaoke and dancing. Yes, dancing- BACK UP RAP VIDEO DANCING, that is!!! In these shots, see Illiam Phatner (aka Matt Sears), Shockwave (Chris Sullivan from Freestyle Love Supreme), Carolyn Castiglia (Chicks&Giggles chica) and a cast of hot rap skanks as filmed by Anya Garrett with help from Marianne Ways! I don't think you can see Baron Vaughn or Badlands, but when the final video is done (very soon) you'll have to check it out. Funny, silly, and you can actually dance to it. Or, in my case, try to. (Please note Barber & Allocco doing the signature Kid N Play Kick Step in one of these shots).

Oh, and just to clarify- I'm the tall one with the gold Adidas who's making the stupid kissing faces in every shot. Because I am very, very original.

Friday, January 19, 2007

What Ya Gonna Do With All That Body?!?

Careful With That Thing Before You Hurt Somebody! Thus is the word from dancehall/R&B crossover, Shaggy. Which I am listening to as I type up "expenses" and wish myself out to the cornfield.

The Boss called me in today to ask about my weekend. The Boss is, as my close friends know, one of my favorite people in the world. As I hate 97.9% of other humans on sight, this is high praise coming from me. The Boss has a lovely British accent, and sometimes if I make him proud he even talks to me in his Birmingham slang and tells me about The Move, before they were ELO.
My heart belongs to The Boss.

When I told The Boss my plans, he looked at me for a bit and then, asked if I was happy. I said yes. He didn't believe me. He said that getting taken out on the town and being drunk with alarming frequency is maybe not such an indicator of happiness, in so many words. He said I need to find a decent suitor to take care of me. Then he said he wanted to talk to my Mom because he's worried about me. All of this was done toucnge-in-cheek, of course. But it threw me.

I thought about it for a second. Am I happy? Do I drink too much? Should I settle down, have a serious boyfriend, put away the tortoise-shell open toe platforms and wash off the metallic gold eye liner? Have a weeknight curfew, stop frequenting karaoke joints, and consider being on time to work more than once a month?

Hmmmmm.

I looked back at The Boss for a second. And I said, "I am the happiest I have ever been."

He told me to get my liver checked. Then we talked about Shalamar, and I told him how much I loved this song and he told me about how he used to go dance to it when it was new. And this, then, is the theme song for my weekend. Hell, for every night of my fucking life. My happy motherfucking non stop my girl wants to party all the time like Eddie Murphy life.

So do have fun with this gem, featuring the lovely Jody Watley pre-solo days. Shalamar, A Night To Remember.


Friday, January 12, 2007

Frisky.



Oh, my LORD, did I EVER love this video as a child. Costumes changes galore! Wigs! Backing vocals by a Gibb brother! And Ms. Ross HERSELF, being an absolute devil and singing a song about HUMPING!!! This is a song about ORGASMS!!! I had no idea what that meant then but I suspected that they would be great and I WAS SO RIGHT!!!

This song just popped up randomly on my iPod and made my weekend. All hell will begin breaking loose...NOW.

Enjoy Chain Reaction, by Diana Ross (and produced by the Bee Gees)

And speaking of humping, feel free to come see me reading a new essay tonight in...

WHEN DID WE BECOME SUCH SLUTS?!?
hosted by Carrie Faverty & Glennis McMurray
11 PM
The P.I.T., 29th & 7th Ave.
www.thepit-nyc.com

People Magazine: Cutting Edge Scoops Galore.


This was a real headline I saw today on People.com:


Heather Locklear Confirms Taste in Men: 'Rock Stars'


















Here's another one for you, People.com:


Kirstie Allie Confirms Taste in Snack Cakes: 'Ring Dings'

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Delightful.

Gay Robot



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They Don't Love You Like I Do.



This song still moves me to tears. It's hard to listen to; it's so visceral and raw and open. Karen O. sounds like a gorgeous version of a cat clawing its way out of certain death. Somehow, she manages to have a voice that is beautiful and awful. I know everyone already knows this, and that's why this song is a big deal, and blah de fucking blah I'm so hip I knew about this when it was still in their BRAINS and shit!!!!!!!

But it is so compelling, so I want to talk about it some more, too-cool-for-schoolness be damned. I recommend making out to it drunk as hell in a really gross, pathetic bar with a doomed paramour. It would best befit the intense dignity that is Maps, by the Yeah Yeah Yeahs.

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Probly Why I'm Always Gettin' Hated On.



It never, EVER gets fucking old. It's simply evergreen, is what it is. Enjoy Conceited, by Remy Ma.

What I'm Doing At My Desk Right Now.












Wearing headphones*, feeling quite hungover, "inputtng expenses", and singing along to my iPod off key. Play along, why don't you?

More Than I Can Say:



Here's the real song as performed by Mister Leo Sayer himself:



Here's the real song, with a special "WHAT THE FUCK?!?" element thrown in for you. Because I like you, that's why.



*Please note new super curly hair due to long overdue coiffing & cut.

(Several explosion sound effects F/X)






(That title was stolen from Matt Sears).

Look here! Why if it isn't...LOS ANGELES FRIENDSHIPS (TM)!

In this episode, meet my dearly beloved Colleen, confection-airess and one of the funniest people I imagine will ever meet. The very marvelous, totally missed by many Josh Haness is also seen here in repose with Modelo. And my sweet Roxanne, who is the best of the best. Maybe you recognize her sassy little figure from a certain album cover of the Rollins Band called NICE? That's right, not only do I have a ton of hot friends, but one of them is mostly nekkid!

Kiss kiss to that. I hate LA and I ain't afraid to say it. But, now that some of my favorite people on earth live there, I can see it being mildly tolerable. Like having a leech on my neck. A nice leech, though.

Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Remember that song in Silence Of The Lambs?


Tub Talk JOD, originally uploaded by Brandy For Sale..

That "Goodbye Horses" song, that Jame' Gumb frolics about to, mere steps above his bloody fingernail-bedecked murder chamber?

I think I hear it playing right...now.


Rocking in '06!



Some kind words from a funny gal names Erin Rose Foley for a fun show I'm lucky enough to co-produce with my old pal, Ms. Kimmy Gatewood. We're coming back strong in 2007, so be there, fool!

The Break Up Show, produced by Kimmy Gatewood & Brandy Barber

Monday, January 08, 2007

I heard this song at LEAST three times last night.


Feel free to click on the image to read this illuminating instant message between my delightful roommate and myself. To really play the game full on, why not listen to Jim Carroll's People Who Died and suck down 4 or 7 Bass pints like they're water, all the while yelling at your friend Vince's polite face?!

I am a Jerk Out like Morris Day and The Time.
















Friday, January 05, 2007

"I Suspect He Was Japanese."



For you, Matt Sears!

I Miss My Comedy Wife!

But she shall be back soon...and when she is, watch your back, suckas. We'll be out on the town, causing trouble, she carrying a sumptuous leather bag from a top handbag manufacturer such as Coach or Louis Vuitton, me schlepping some sort of Marc Jacobs-as-inspired-by-Chanel-knock off from Strawberry.

Until then, enjoy this, which upon close examination, is really the cornerstone of our friendship; a Rosetta Stone for those unaquainted, if you will, to our odd, magical, creepy partnership.



Or you could just watch this while eating a whole paw-full of Hershey's Kisses you swiped from the karaoke place while the cashier's back was turned. Knock yourself out, holmes.

Return To Pooh Corner.

I've returned from Southern California! And I have some things to share with Y O U.

1. I went into Duane Reade on 35th & 5th Avenue after work to grab some items and noted that due to space constraints, they had done some intersting space combinations. One sign read, "PET FOOD/FEMININE HYGIENE". This made me slighty uncomfortable.

2. I curled up in my bed the night I got home and cried because I missed my parents so terribly. For the record, I'm 33. Not 3.

3. Nigel, my beloved cat and only begotten son, attacked World's Best Roommate Porter AND Cat-sitter Extrodiannaire and Ex-BF Ben. By attack I mean, he bit them without really using teeth. So I guess that means he gummed them. Even Nigel's seperation anxiety fueled hatred is gentle and loving.

4. During the 5 hour flight home, I did some deep thinking about how I want 2007 to turn out and how to get what I really dream of in the New Year. Some of these profound thoughts included:

- Remember when Michael J. Fox and Nancy McKeon, real life celebrity couple, were in that made for TV movie about summer camp that was a thinly-veiled attempt at recapturing the glory that was Meatballs?
- How many Lime & Chili Lay's can I surreptitiously chomp on before I veer dangerously close to 5 servings from this 6 serving bag?
- If that baby doesn't shut the fuck up I'm cramming it back in for another 9 months.
- Remember how I almost forgot to remove my stash box from my purse before leaving for the airport?
- Who wants to join the Mile High Club? How about you in seat 18F with the skateboard, handsome?
- Seriously. SHUT that baby UP!
- Man, I sincerely hope these newlyweds keep whisper-squabbling over something petty so I can rejoice in my singleness yet again.
- If the fat, androgynous 5'8" 12 year old with BO and the distinct, tangy reek of a filthy scalp in front of me rocks back in his (her?) seat and hits my kneecap one more time, I'm going to pull a McDonald's Grandma and pour hot coffee on its crotch, thereby sealing its fate as a unich-lady.
- Wait. Would finger banging count for the Mile High Club after all? Or would it be assigned a point value to be traded in for full-fledged membership after a certain pre-determined collection period? Discuss with your married Mormon seatmate.

Ah, the peace of mind that rampant self-reflection brings. Truly without price. Peace out, A Town. And welcome back to me.

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

"I'm not his girl. He's MY gangster." - Drew Preston, Billy Bathgate

If you haven't seen the movie Billy Bathgate, you're missing out on looking at Loren Dean. And that makes me think you're an idiot, because he may just be physically perfect. Speaking of idiots, read on!

By jove, the utter delight I took tonight in viewing the hilarious ribaldry that IS...Oxygen's The Bad Girls Club! This week, some dimwit chick dry humps an LA shaved ape whilst the other hottentots pass judgement and snipe over sharing limosine privilidges. Oh, 'twas grand!

I attempted to snarf some photo proof of the shennaingans for all you who are too uppity to watch it, or at least admit to doing so. But all I managed to turn up was this casting notice. Too bad I wasn't in Chicago for it. Dang!


BAD GIRL

It may mean something different to everyone, but if you think of yourself as a "bad girl," then you could be on a new reality show from the producers of The Real World.

The Oxygen Network and Bunim/Murray Productions are currently casting for a new reality series which will bring together six bad girls from across the country. The girls will live in a house in Los Angeles and work with each other to tackle aspects of their personalities that, while making them fabulous, often tend to hold them back from success in relationships and careers. And while the girls efforts may not always be successful, they're going to have a whole lot of fun trying.

Have you ever been called a "drama queen?"

Does your refusal to PLAY BY THE RULES
sometimes get you in trouble?

Do you need to find a way to get it together and reach your dreams without compromising
the things that make you special?

Then Join the club.
The Bad Girls Club.

Saturday, June 17th

The Apartment
2251 N. Lincoln Avenue
Chicago, IL 60614
11 am – 5 pm

Tell us what makes you special. Tell us what you do for a living and whether you enjoy it. Tell us who are the people closest to you and who are the people holding you back? Finally tell us what are your dreams for the future?

Sunday, December 31, 2006

With Surgical Focus.


Hey all, I am in CA this fine evening. BUT, if you are in New York and looking for a really awesome event to attend, you should head here. It's a fantastic bar in my neighborhood, and some people I really adore will be there. Plus, what GBV fan wants to miss this? Happy New Year, and don't say I never did nothin' for you.

From my pal, Dickie Luxury:

my new band
The Winter Drinks
will be playing at Sample tonight
and our special guest will be
Doug Gillard (Guided by Voices/Cobra Verde/Richard Buckner)
There is no cover but there is endless Prosecco for $25 from 10:00 to midnight.
See you there.


The Winter Drinks
Sample
152 Smith St.
btwn Wyckoff & Bergen
Bergen St. F/G station
Cobble Hill, Brooklyn

Friday, December 29, 2006

Fur is for animals- NOT YOU, GRANDMA.

Hi. I hate fucking people who wear fur. You're not native american, you don't need it for warmth or survival of any kind, and you're an asshole. End of story. What can you do if you have some fur that you feel (rightfully) guilty about hoarding? Even if you're a sad, silly old bitch who needs to show off status, you can redeem yourself by doing this. Or dying and leaving your money to an orphanage. Either, or.


Coats for Cubs Doubles the Return to the Animals





©2005 Lynne Slater
Donated fur from The HSUS kept this baby bobcat alive.
By Andrea Cimino

If you strayed into the back office of our Fur-Free Campaign, you might think you were in a fur warehouse, rather than in the headquarters of an international animal protection organization.

Our staff spends hours each week packing and labeling boxes of fur for shipping—not to fur shops, but to wildlife rehabilitators who use it as bedding for orphaned and injured wildlife such as raccoons, rabbits, foxes, squirrels, and even bobcats. Wildlife rehabilitators say the fur reduces stress in their animal patients, perhaps reminding them of the comfort of snuggling up to their mothers.

With articles on Coats for Cubs appearing in magazines like Real Simple, Organic Style, First Magazine, and dozens of local newspapers across the country, December 2005 turned into a record-breaking month for the decade-old program. More than 400 individuals donated furs. Over the course of the year, the campaign took in just over 1,500 donations, more than doubling the number collected in 2004. These numbers translate into 1,500 fewer people wearing and promoting real fur this year, and countless orphaned and injured wildlife comforted during their rehabilitation.

Everyday Heroes Donate Fur

Presidents of PR firms, fashion editors, and Long Island homemakers are just a few of the people who made the compassionate decision to become fur-free and donate their fur to The HSUS in 2005. From Hawaii to Maine, from England to Slovenia, former fur wearers (and people who have inherited furs from relatives or friends) are proud—and often relieved—to donate their furs to The HSUS.

Each fur donator has their own story to tell. Many people who inherit fur have been long-time supporters of animal protection and would never dream of wearing fur. Yet they don't want to toss out the fur that a relative gave them, nor do they want to resell the fur, and have it be worn by somebody else. For them, donating the coat to help wildlife presents the perfect solution:

Sentimental and Squeamish: A donor from Costa Mesa, California, who sent us a mink stole told us, "I'm not comfortable wearing fur, and because it has sentimental value, I didn't want to just throw it away. Thank you for providing a great use for this fur."

Scared by a Stole: Another donor in Cary, North Carolina, parted with her grandmother's fur with a sense of humor. "Here is a scary-looking fur stole I found among my grandmother's belongings," she told us. "Hopefully the orphaned animals won't find it as disconcerting as I did."

Garish Gift: We also receive many donations from people who received fur as a gift, showing that fur is never a wise choice for a present, since so many people are upset about the animal cruelty inherent in fur garments. Not comfortable refusing the fur, and even more uncomfortable with the thought of wearing it, these people turn to the Coats for Cubs program.

Other donors tell us they purchased a fur item before they realized the extent of the cruelty behind each fur coat, trimmed garment, or accessory. Through their HSUS membership, information from a friend, or an article or video on the fur industry, these fur donators say they realize that the animals need their fur more than we do. The images of animals pacing in tiny wire cages on fur farms or caught in cruel devices such as the steel-jaw leghold trap drive home the idea that fur is cruel and unnecessary. Giving fur back to animals can be an ideal way to provide a happy ending for an item with such a sad beginning.

Fleece Is Warmer than Fox: One donor told us that she bought a pair of fox fur-lined gloves upon moving to Alaska. Shortly afterward, she saw her first arctic fox, who was walking through her backyard. It dawned on her that the fur looked better on the fox than in her gloves, and she decided to donate them to Coats for Cubs. She even sent us a picture of herself wearing fleece garments in the great Alaskan outdoors, telling us how much warmer fleece is than fur.

Rethinking Rabbit: Another donor from Castleton, New York, thanked us for "making me aware of a good use for this rabbit fur coat. I certainly wasn't thinking of the unfortunate rabbits when I purchased it for my daughter about 15 years ago. We are both much more aware now, and are very pleased to know that it may help other animals recover."

New School of Thought: A donor from Middlebury, Vermont, wrote us, "I haven't known what to do with these fur coats for the past 25 years, ever since I became aware of the fur issue. I wish I had been made aware of it in school, before I ever had a chance to buy these two coats. Thanks for coordinating this effort."

Many of the furs donated to us are in near-perfect condition, and might have earned these everyday heroes a lot of money if they resold the items. But for many people, the chance to right the wrong done to the animals killed for their fur is more important than any financial gain.

The Cubs They Saved

The payoff of Coats for Cubs is helping injured and orphaned wildlife with the donated furs. Coats for Cubs has sent donated furs to wildlife centers such as The Fund for Animals' Wildlife Rehabilitation Center in Ramona, California, Larimer Humane Society in Fort Collins, Colorado, the Ohio Wildlife Center in Columbus, Ohio, the North Island Wildlife Recovery Association in Errington, British Columbia, Helping Arkansas Wild "Kritters" (HAWK) in Russellville, Arkansas, and to independent wildlife rehabilitators licensed by their state wildlife agencies.

While we send furs to wildlife rehabilitators all over North America, we've given extra to the Gulf area in recent months. Suzy Heck of Heckhaven Wildlife Rehabilitation Center in Lake Charles, Louisiana, thanked us for sending the furs, explaining that because the center lost everything "due to Hurricane Rita and the flood after, these furs will be much appreciated. We are getting animals in, many still storm related, and soon, the orphans will be appearing."

Anna Harvey, a rehabilitator in Osceola, Iowa, took in a litter of orphaned opossums from a woman who climbed into a dumpster to rescue them. Their mother had been hit by a car, and someone had thoughtlessly thrown the litter into the dumpster. Harvey used our donated fur to comfort the orphans, and reported that they responded well to the fur. "The woman who rescued the opossums from the dumpster is a big hero, as are the people who sent the furs to you. Opossums love the long fur. They are doing well and eating a bit on their own," she wrote to us.

Tracy Beasley, a rehabilitator in Davis, Oklahoma, told us, "my favorite thing to do with the furs is to sew them into pouches of different sizes with draw string tops. They are excellent for orphaned opossums and raccoons. It makes them feel secure and keeps them warm."

In one case, the fur from Coats for Cubs made the difference between life and death. Lynne Slater, a rehabilitator in Arkansas, received a week-old bobcat whose mother had been killed by a car. Slater tried removing the bobcat kitten from the bed at feeding time several times, but the kitten simply would not suckle a baby bottle. Then inspiration struck, and she cut a hole in a Coats for Cubs fur, stuck the baby bottle nipple through the hole, and voila, the kitten drank hungrily. This technique worked until weaning time. Slater said, "Without the Coats for Cubs program, we wouldn't have been able to help this bobcat kitten survive. Thanks so much."

What Kind of Furs do People Donate?

The boxes of fur we ship out to wildlife rehabilitators contain common types of fur like mink, fox, rabbit, and raccoon. Occasionally we receive rarer types of fur, such as lynx and seal fur. The strangest coat of all was a vintage monkey fur coat, now fortunately illegal under CITES.

The donations range from full length fur coats to accessories such as stoles, capes, hats, and handbags, and fur trimmed items such as gloves and jackets.

How Do I Donate?

To claim a tax deduction for your gift, please mail your fur(s) directly to The HSUS. Simply pack up the fur in a sturdy box and send it to:

The Humane Society of the United States
2100 L. St. NW
Washington, DC 20037
attn: Coats for Cubs

Please make sure to include your full name and address so The HSUS can mail you a letter suitable for claiming a tax deduction. For more information on the program and claiming a tax deduction, see www.hsus.org/furdonation.








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I Know Nothing Stays The Same, But If You're Willing To Play The Game.

I've had two seprate "requests" for this gem of a tribute to the beloved Carly Simon. The backstory is that Sara needed a song to sing to complete a bit where she pretends to get onstage and sing a song to her cheating, creepy ex. Let's call him "Geri", shall we? Sara tries to be nice to "Geri" but, it ends violently. We couldn't decide if she should use a sappy ballad from Boyz II Men, Whitney Houston or maybe even Mariah Carey. I suggested "You're So Vain", which, while amazing as a tool to sing drunkenly at oh, I don't know, a Valentine's Day down-with-love karoke party or something, was almost TOO trite for what Sara was planning. And that's how Sara warbling her own special version of "Coming Around Again" came to be. Compare and contrast- and do enjoy! Photo proof of the end result here (with "Geri" volunteer Matt Sears).






Wednesday, December 27, 2006

Brokenhearted.

Sometimes, I miss Wanya from Boyz II Men.

It's Ok To Make Friends, After All.

"Pretzels smell like another man's breath!"




This song reminds me so much of being in 3rd grade, sleeping in my Aunt's waterbed. It may have been playing on her digital display clock radio. I was half-asleep, thinking I was so super cool. NEWSFLASH: I was not. It's a relic of a time when I felt like all was right with the world.

It makes me so glad for all the love I have in my life, because I have to say- I am stunned by it sometimes. I have never been so surrounded by people who care for me, who would take a bullet for me, and who refuse to let me be treated poorly by anoyone who would dare to attempt it. I am fascinated by this. And beyond grateful.

He is the man, who will fight, for my honor.

Nigel is in good spirits, according to impromptu petsitter Ben. This does not make me feel any better for abandoning him. I am not good at apologizing, but when I do, I mean it. Sorry, Nigel. Sorry.